昨天妈妈第一次带轩轩看牙医. 本来以为也就是例行检查一下. 没想到这么小的孩子也要象大人一样洗牙. 还好妈妈事先讲了好几个看牙医的故事. 轩轩一进去就熟门熟路的指出看牙医的专用椅子. 帮助轩轩洗牙的护士似乎也是对付小孩的高手. 吱吱响的工具变成了Thomas train going through Ryan's tooth track, , 水枪变成了fire engine to give Ryan's teeth a shower. 结果小朋友就非常合作. 张嘴闭嘴, 自己老老实实坐着, 而且完成了还特别骄傲的给妈妈看奖励来的Token. 妈妈也特别轻松高兴. 三岁小朋友第一次洗牙顺利完成.

一转眼, 轩轩开学快一个星期了. 虽然才这么几天, 爸爸妈妈连阿姨都感觉轩轩进步了许多. 自己会跑来主动要求去厕所, 睡觉也是很合作听完故事就自己关灯goodnight睡觉. 好象很知道自己第二天要早起, 不能浪费珍贵的睡眠时间. 妈妈越来越喜欢轩轩的新老师. 能把淘气的轩轩管住, 也真是挺不一般的.

 

轩轩第一二天去上学, 因为抗拒, 都是被老师抱进校门的. 学校很严格, 不准妈妈下车送小朋友上学, 只能由老师领进去. 妈妈前两天都只能很勉强看轩轩被抱进去, 真有种被抢的感觉. 虽然每次去接的时候, 轩轩都很高兴, 说还要去新学校, 妈妈还是心理很不舒服. 尤其是轩轩做梦大哭, 说不要老师抱, 轩轩害怕, 妈妈就更觉得不能再这样继续下去. 星期一送轩轩上学的路上, 妈妈一直鼓励轩轩自己走进学校. 一到校门口, 妈妈也不管学校的规定, 抢在老师来之前就跳下车给轩轩松开安全带. 老师来了, 轩轩又想哭. 妈妈在旁边鼓励轩轩, 不要老师抱, 轩轩自己走. 轩轩犹豫了一下, 就头也不回的自己走进校门. 在旁的老师都给轩轩鼓起掌来. 妈妈终于松了一口气. 看着儿子小小的背影, 那一瞬间, 还真有点骄傲呢.

 

好笑的是, 今天迟到了, 妈妈只能自己把轩轩领进教室. 结果反而引起轩轩大哭. 一方面是因为不要妈妈走, 更加难过的是不能轩轩自己走进来. 原来这孩子渴望独立的心理这么迫切. 看样子, 以后是不能迟到了.

Yesterday was the first tim Ryan meet his new teachers in new school. Mommy was quite worried since Ryan has been in a very negative mood recently. Everything was "I don't want to go"; "I don't want to do it" or " I am scared." What if something triggered Ryan's negative buttion. Luckily Ryan was quite cooperating since morning. He was very happy that he could found his name and hang his backpack on the hood by himself. Ryan loved to play with the toy trains and brush sets and glass jars in the classroom. The toy trains caused some fights, but there are also a nice big kid trying to teach him how to match caps with different bottles. Mommy was somewhat relieved after finding out his teacher seems actually like strong willed child, and could get a big yes and smile from Ryan. Maybe we finally are ablele to get THE teacher for him.

 

We had a new nanny starting today. Mommy felt very bad for Ryan that he had to deal with so many changes recently...new house, new nanny, new baby, new school and new teacher. Tomorrow it is his first day of real school. Mommy read Ryan a story about a kid goes to school and mommy loves him all day long. Hopefully this will eas his axienty. I am keeping my finger crossed.